比起母亲细腻的爱，父亲的爱显得有些粗犷；比起每年被大肆宣传的母亲节，父亲节的“知名度”似乎也略显逊色。都说慈母严父，我的爸爸在家庭当中的角色似乎也是一个十足的“严父”，他就像是一个面色冷峻的守门者，每当我起了一丝念头要越过一道违规的门槛时，他总会出现在我面前，阻拦我，告诉我“不可以”。
从小到大，我对爸爸的印象都是不苟言笑，在妈妈面前我会撒娇会耍赖，但是对于爸爸，我从来不敢造次。记得有一次，我们在路上遇到一个乞讨的人。他衣衫褴褛，头发乱糟糟，非常瘦弱，有一条腿还是瘸的，跪坐在路边一动不动，面前放着一个缺了一角的碗，里面有几张零钱。
真可怜啊，我忍不住对爸爸说：“爸爸，我们拿点钱给他吧。”爸爸微笑着满口答应，我接过爸爸拿给我的两个硬币，走近乞丐，可是他浑身冒出一股难闻的恶臭，我当下心里有点后悔，便捏住鼻子，在离他几步远的时候，迅速把硬币扔过去，可是没有瞄准，硬币滚落在一旁。
“完成任务”的我想要折身回返，却发现爸爸铁青着一张脸，走过去捡起地上的硬币，轻轻地放入碗里。我顿时知道爸爸生气了，一句话都不敢说。
在回家的路上，爸爸语重心长地跟我说：“你想拿钱给他，出国留学网说明你心地善良，想帮助弱者，爸爸很高兴，但是既然已经动手做，就要善始善终，你怕脏怕臭所以把钱丢进去，这是一种很不礼貌的行为，他虽然是个身无分文的乞丐，但是并不代表不配得到尊重。尊重别人就是尊重自己，知道吗？”“知道了，爸爸，我下次不会了。”
上个月，我们一家人去参加表姐的婚礼，当时的我眼睛只盯着美丽的新娘，富丽堂皇的酒店，让人垂涎三尺的美食，可是爸爸却一脸落寞和伤感，我正疑惑着，他突然沉重地叹了口气：“每个爸爸都不愿意面对这一天，怎么舍得把女儿嫁出去呢？”说着回过头来看我，开玩笑说：“爸爸对你这么凶，你以后嫁人会不会头都不回就走啊？”我当下突然觉得心里一酸，一瞬间理解了为人父母的苦心。虽然爸爸平时对我管教严格，但是一切出发点都是为了我的成长，我不应该怕他，而且应该理解他，感谢他。
父亲节就快到了，就让我在这里给爸爸说句父亲节快乐，感谢您一直以来对我的教导，我会理解并接受，希望您能够身体健康，我也会努力学习，成为一个足够让你骄傲的女儿。
His father's love was a little rough compared to his mother's exquisite love; Father's day is slightly less famous than the much-hyped mother's day of the year. All say loving mother groomed, role of my father in the family, too, seems to be a real "groomed", he is like a face cold gatekeepers, whenever I thought up a little to crossed a threshold that violate the rules, he always appeared in front of me, stop me, told me that "can't".
Growing up, my impression of my father was very serious, and I would make a monkey out of my mother before my mother, but I never dared to do it for my father. Once we met a beggar on the road. His ragged, hair is a mess, very thin, with a leg or lame, knelt on the side of the road motionless, over a bowl in the corner of the short, there are a few small change.
Poor thing, I couldn't help but say to my dad, "dad, let's get some money for him." Dad smiled and readily promised, I took my dad to my two COINS, approached a beggar, but he was emitted a terrible stench, I now in the mind a little regret, then hold your nose, at the time of a few feet away from him, quickly throw a coin in the past, but no aim, coin rolled aside.
I wanted to turn back, but I found that my father was wearing a face. He went over to pick up the COINS and gently put them in the bowl. I knew that my father was angry, and said nothing.
On the way home, dad to longly say to me: "do you want to take money to him, you has a kind heart, want to help the weak, dad is very happy, but now that you have to make, will be channelled to useful ends, and you are afraid of dirty smelly so the money put in, this is a kind of very impolite behavior, penniless beggar as he is, but do not represent doesn't deserve respect. Respect yourself, respect others is to respect yourself, you know?" "I know, dad. I won't do it again."
Go to cousin's wedding last month, our family, at that time my eyes stared at the beautiful bride, palatial hotels, coveted, but my dad is a face of loneliness and sadness, I was wondering, he liuxue86.com suddenly with a heavy sigh: "every dad is not willing to face this day, how willing to marry her daughter to go out?" "Dad is so hard on you," he said. "when you get married, you will never go back." Suddenly I felt an acid in my heart, and I understood my parents' pains in a flash. Although my father was always strict with me, but all the starting point was for my growth, I should not be afraid of him, and I should understand him and thank him.
Father's day is coming soon, let me here for dad happy father's day to say thank you for your teaching has always been to me, I will understand and accept, hope you can healthy body, I will study hard, become a enough to make you proud of her daughter.
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